Are You Always The Decorative Wall Clock In Parties?
Always the Wallflower?
Women and young girls areagonize during socials when they are not asked to dance. Way back, they would have been called wallflowers but with a different implication. Wallflowers alluded to girls or women too shy to dance. It was taboo then to dance with another girl so there was no option but to sit there like a decorative wall clock pretending to be enjoying the dance floor scene when actually she was dying with shame.
Although girl-to-girl dancing in parties and clubs is no longer a social no-no, it is still terrifying for girls to be left at the table while everyone else is rocking or fox-trotting on the dance floor. They will not admit that they have prayed to all conceivalbe deities begging for someone to hustle them to a rhumba. Nine out of 10, they will try to lookdisintrested, which will drive the men farther away.
It is always a matter of feminine pride to be chosen from a throng of beauties and asked for a dance. If you are baffled why men bypass you for the girl behind you when you’re equally sexy or alluring, check this list out. You might get a clue to the missing link.
* You look like a sourpuss.
* You are with a troop of women.
* If you are with a friend, men will dither to ask one of you to dance.
* You are not wearing something soft to the touch, men like something silky.
* You look too dseperate.
* You are wearing too much jewelry.
* You are wearing double tops, men find it difficult to lead woman wearing double tops because their hands slip or slide thus hampering intricate moves.
* You are wobbling on 4-inch heels shoes.
Techniques to Get Men to Dance with You
In this liberated times, women can invite men to dance with them. But there is a style to bag a dancing partner. Of course, you don’t ask the traditional “May I have this dance?” and you do not bulldozer him with a “dance with me.”
It would be effective if you look him in the eye and pleasantly tell him you would like to dance with him. Chances are he will be pleased and agree or assure you’ll he will seek you out later. The question does not force a man to say yes or no directly, saving you embarrassment.
A woman who got the most dances would always greet the men when arrives at the party. His was a subtle but successful strategy to let men know she was friendly. She also does not checks the men seated near the dance floor like a row of handsome Howard Miller clocks or mantel clocks.
If you want more men to dance with you, follow those tips. You’ll be the envy of all women at the party.
Posted on: Sunday, August 31, 2008 at 5:06 am 
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